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Ken

The Fear of Rejection

By Church
Back in 2001, we made the decision to leave the church tradition we both had grown up in. We felt God calling us into a new, more contemporary direction. I found myself one of two finalists for a senior associate position outside of Chicago. Over two years, I would transition into the senior pastor position. It was a fantastic opportunity to be mentored by a successful pastor. The church operated a Christian school that our two daughters could attend. Having been born and raised in Peoria (downstate!), I still had family in central Illinois.  And ... it would put me within striking distance of Wrigley Field. After returning from our interview, I'll never forget the phone call from the chairman of elders. He politely informed me that they had opted for the other candidate because he came from the same background. To put it bluntly, I was devastated and disappointed. But…
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Life’s Ultimate Pleasure

By Church
You are probably familiar with the concept of the bell curve. A bell curve is quite simple. Take people who play golf over the course of any given year. Those on the right side of the curve will be really good. Those on the left side will be dangerously bad. But the majority of people are neither really good or really bad. They are just in the middle. Take Michael Jordan. When it comes to dunking a basketball, he would be on the far right side of basketball bell curve. Then there's nerdy guys like me -- on the far left of the bell curve. Millions of Michael Jordan wannabees would be in the middle. But here’s the problem: every day we are bombarded with the best of the best – it's either the greatest, the funniest, or the biggest. But where do I live most of the time? In the middle. Unfortunately, we’ve become…
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