As parents, we have a wonderful opportunity to speak into the lives of our children at crucial times. Our words carry the power of life; they can also create wounds that may last a lifetime. We have always spoken to our girls in terms of "when you go to college" instead of "if you go to college." In this way, it becomes an expected next step in life. It also reinforces our belief in their capabilities and potential. It's part of creating a culture of positive expectation. When talking about taking a family vacation to Europe or Hawaii, we often joke that "when you become a big-short attorney you can take all four of us." I have no assumption either girl will be an attorney (nor do I really want them to be), but it's another way of conveying to them ... "You are capable of great things." As a…
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This falls under the category of "Why didn't I know this before now?" I just learned tonight that you can enable a feature in Microsoft Word that scores your document in terms of readability. I pasted in a blog entry and was amazed at how it breaks things down. To learn more, visit this page at Microsoft. Hat tip to Angel Tuccy for passing this along.
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In 1999, I co-founded a company with a few other guys with the intention of helping non-profits raise money online. Having lived in the non-profit world for all of my adult life (serving as a pastor), I was intimately aware of how non-profits had great missions and little money. I was a bit of a romantic: the goal was to set aside 10% of our revenue to go towards church planting. Unfortunately, we made no money. Shortly after shutting that down, I went to work for the first iteration of Christianity.com (now on its third or fourth owners). At the beginning we had all the Starbucks coffee and Krispy Kreme donuts we could handle. At the end, it was "bring your own coffee and napkins." After a fun ride, I was eventually laid off. After that I went into a period of doing contract work for a law firm handling…
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This weekend I'm teaching on the opening lines of the Lord's Prayer: "Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name." A few random thoughts (and hopefully they won't be so random this weekend): The prayer begins with the word "our" and the community/relational aspect continues throughout the remainder of the prayer. "Give us this day ..." "Deliver us from evil ..." The way Jesus teaches us to address God is a radical departure from the way the religious leaders of his day prayed. Beyond the generic sense of "God created everyone" therefore he's our Father, when we accept his gift of salvation we are "adopted" into his family. He becomes our Father by choice, not by accident. The word "hallowed" has survived in most English translations from the time of the King James (1611) through the New International Version (1970's) even though it is not used much in common conversation.…
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No one really enjoys ambiguity. As I work with fellow leaders, I've learned that one of the greatest gifts a leader brings to those around him is a sense of clarity. When we are clear on our vision/mission/objectives/responsibilities ... we are free to focus and achieve. A lack of clarity not only confuses but paralyzes even the most capable people. How do you get to clarity? Ask questions. If something is unclear, ask for the other person to explain it another way. Ask for examples. Repeat back to the person what you are understanding them to say. When possible, write it down. Establish benchmarks. We may not be able to visualize the end result but perhaps we can see the quarter-mile marker just up ahead. Don't assume. If you're unsure whether or not a person is understanding you, ask them. If you're not sure if they have an appreciation of…
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