"A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in his holy dwelling" (Psalm 68:5). This is an excerpt from a passage I read this past weekend as we focused on the magnificence of God. The passage goes on to describe how God has been a faithful provider to his people. I've always liked Psalm 68:5 for how it describes God. A father to the fatherless ... a defender of widows. Not just a protector but a defender! As I looked into this idea of God becoming a father to the fatherless, I noticed that the Bible is filled with verses that speak of God's concern for the disadvantaged and disenfranchised (over 30 verses alone deal with the fatherless). Here are a few samples: "Your rulers are rebels, companions of thieves; they all love bribes and chase after gifts. They do not defend the cause of the fatherless;…
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We recently started a four-part teaching series on generosity. In preparing my thoughts for week two, I've been processing this idea of the healing power of generosity. Jesus taught us that it is "more blessed to give than to receive," though we often live as if we believed the opposite. Why would Jesus say such a thing? Why is it better to give than to receive? Having a generous spirit is a safeguard against three specific things: Selfishness Self-centeredness Self-pity Selfishness is the opposite of a generous spirit. Rather than give things away, selfish people hold on to them. Selfish people live with the idea of "limited resources." In other words, there is only so much time ... money ... ideas ... energy to go around -- so it's better to use it for yourself than to waste it on someone else. A self-centered person believes life revolves around him. …
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Jim spoke tonight about how God is the origin of generosity. From beginning to end, the Bible is filled with examples of God's giving nature. As we transitioned into our communion time, I shared with the church an acronym I first heard back in high school. It's an easy way to remember the meaning of grace: God's Riches At Christ's Expense Grace is God allowing us to share in his goodness, even when we didn't deserve it. John Newton was the captain of a ship that carried slaves between West Africa and England. The slaves were transported under awful conditions. While sailing home on one particular voyage, Newton encountered a violent storm. Convinced the ship was lost and about to sink, Newton cried out, "Lord, have mercy on us." He later referred to that moment as his "great deliverance." While not a religious man prior to that, he became a…
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This is from Mac Lake and is called "Six Conversations Leaders Need to Have." You interact with your staff everyday, you pass them in the halls, you pop into their office or even go to lunch together on occasion. But how intentional are those interactions? Intentional interactions with those we lead create development opportunities that increase their leadership productivity. But too often leaders neglect meeting with the individuals on their team because they dont know what to talk about. So here are six conversations you need to have with the individuals on your team. I’ll write more on each of these later but for now here is the concept and one question each to get the conversation started. 1. The Strengths Conversation. What are your strengths and what percentage of your time do you feel you operate in your strengths? 2. The Passion Conversation. What are you most passionate about…
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In the spirit of Thanksgiving more than turkey, I thought I'd share a few words of thanks. No particular order, but each is important. Thank you ... to my parents for raising me with good values, good humor, and a good foundation. You may be gone but your memory is alive and well. Thank you ... to my wife for sticking with me for nearly 19 years. I'm glad it's not true that married start looking alike the longer they've been married -- more for your sake than mine. Thank you ... to my two daughters for bringing joy and laughter into our home in their own unique ways. I hope for you more than you'll ever know. Thank you ... to the churches that I have blessed to serve over the last 19 years. It's been a privilege I have never taken for granted. Thank you ... to the…
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