Leading Like Jesus (1 Peter 5:1-4)

Leading Like Jesus

Every group needs guidance — whether it’s a family, a team, or a church. But not all leadership looks the same. Some leaders lead with pride and distance; others lead with humility and presence.

In 1 Peter 5, we get a picture of leadership that reflects the heart of Jesus. And it starts in a surprising place.

Lead From Among, Not From Above

Peter begins by writing: “To the elders among you, I appeal as a fellow elder …” (1 Peter 5:1).

Notice what he doesn’t say. He doesn’t pull rank as an apostle. He doesn’t flex his authority. Instead, he calls himself a fellow elder.

That’s humility. That’s shared responsibility. And it reminds us that true spiritual leadership starts with presence and proximity.

The best shepherds “smell like sheep” because they’re involved, not isolated. Leadership isn’t about titles; it’s about being close enough to guide, protect, and serve.

Lead Willingly, Not Reluctantly

Peter continues: “Be shepherds of God’s flock … not because you must, but because you are willing …” (1 Peter 5:2).

We’ve all had a boss or a teacher who was “phoning it in.” Their heart wasn’t in it — and everyone could tell.

God desires leaders whose hearts are engaged. Christian leadership should flow out of love, not guilt. Out of calling, not pressure.

And let’s be clear: these aren’t our people. They are God’s people. Leadership is stewardship. That truth should keep us both humble and accountable.

Lead Eagerly, Not Greedily

Peter warns against pursuing “dishonest gain.” Leadership in the church is never meant to be a platform for personal profit or ego.

Influence is for service, not self-promotion.

When leaders serve eagerly, people can feel the difference. Eager service flows from joy. Manipulation and control flow from insecurity.

Model the Way

Peter adds: “Not lording it over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock” (1 Peter 5:3).

People follow authenticity more than authority.

We’ve all seen the parent who says, “Do as I say, not as I do.” That doesn’t inspire much trust. But when leaders live the values they teach, they gain credibility.

The tone we set matters. Harshness breeds fear. Gentleness builds trust.

True shepherds show the way, not just say the way.

Live for the Applause of Heaven

Finally, Peter points to the reward of faithful leadership: “When the Chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the crown of glory that will never fade away” (1 Peter 5:4).

Earthly recognition fades. Applause dies down. Awards collect dust. But Jesus sees — and he rewards — humble, faithful shepherding.

Think of an Olympic athlete who trains for years, not for immediate praise, but for that one moment on the podium. For Christian leaders, that podium is still ahead — when we stand before the Chief Shepherd. And on that day, every step of faithfulness will be worth it.

Final Word

If you’ve been entrusted with influence — whether in your family, workplace, or church — hear Peter’s words.

Lead with humility. Serve with joy. Model the way. Shepherd like Jesus.

Because one day, you’ll answer to him.

Faithfulness now leads to glory then. And that’s worth everything.