It's night time here in Nepal. Our team spent the first part of today meeting various people at Tiny Hands, the organization that we are working with this week. They shared with us more specifics regarding their mission and vision. After lunch we had a few free hours and I settled into a coffee shop (surprise). This one grew and roasted its own beans. The coffee was fantastic ... but I digress. Tonight we split into two teams and went to two different children's homes. I went to an all boys home. The boys ranged in age from 4-14. After introductions, we played a few indoor games and then went upstairs to the roof, also known as the dance floor. The "dance floor" was a piece of wood spread out over concrete. The boys obviously practice dancing quite a bit. After a little encouragement, I busted a few moves myself.…
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In preaching and public speaking, one of the greatest challenges a speaker faces is how to make the message applicable to his or her listeners. In other words, how to move from information to transformation. Over the years, I have learned to "think ahead" when it comes to preaching. As I'm researching and writing my message, I try to think ahead to the different types of people who will be in the crowd and the different aspects of life each of them faces. To jumpstart your move to application, you might consider thinking through how your message applies to one or more of these areas: People stuff. How does your main point affect their marriage? How they raise their children? Handle employees? Conflict and tension. Does your main point or passage help resolve a conflict or give perspective to a particular tension? Is there an immediate step of action they…
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Does gentleness come naturally to you? Most likely not. Gentleness and selfishness do not work well together. As humans, everything about us wants to focus on self -- our needs, our wants, our desires. We protect our interests. We look out for number one. Selfish people are rarely gentle people. If you are a Christ-follower, did you know you've been commanded to be gentle? It's straight from Paul's letter to the Philippian church: "Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near" (Philippians 4:5). Gentleness is more than kindness, though it is hard (if not impossible) to be gentle without being kind. Gentleness is more than a tone-of-voice, though it certainly includes the manner in which you address other people. In the biblical sense, gentleness is a willingness to not demand your rights in a given situation. A gentle person does not have to go around always insisting…
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My mother never met a stranger. She met many strange people but talked to them any way (I've learned those often make for the best conversations). As a child, I didn't appreciate it as I should have. Of course, that is true about many things. My mom came from a broken home and spent much of her childhood bouncing between the homes of her older siblings. I didn't appreciate that either. Her faith background was a "Baskin Robbins 31 Flavor" mix of this and that. As I've grown older, I've grown to appreciate that more. Though my mom died in 1995, her influence in my life is ever-present. My gift of gab, also known as preaching, came from her. Her values, her zest for life, her loyalty to people ... These have stayed with me. Our family even has two cats today (thanks, mom). To be honest, not all Mother's…
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Thomas Edison once said that "vision without execution is hallucination." He should have known. Edison was famous for his relentless pursuit of what worked -- in light bulbs, moving pictures, and more. When it came to the light bulb, it's probably fair to say he failed more times than he succeeded. Not all execution is an immediate success; in fact, sometimes our actions result in setbacks or shed further light on what doesn't work. But execution requires action. How many decent athletes play pick-up basketball? Thousands? Hundreds of thousands? More than a few of them probably fancied themselves a good player -- maybe even had the raw abilities to be a good player. They had visions of greatness but lacked one thing: execution. Those who rise from the ranks of playground ball to their high school team, on to college, or possibly the pro's have learned that success (accomplishing the…
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