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second guessing

By General
Have you ever second-guessed yourself?  Second-guessed God? Most of us have had a time when we've made a decision ... began living the decision ... and came to a point where we wondered if we made the right decision. In some ways, it may be natural.  As finite beings with limited access to knowledge of the future, we make decisions (hopefully) based upon the best available information at  hand.  In so doing, we recognize our limitations and choose to live with a less than perfect knowledge of what may or may not happen. Second-guessing may be natural and, at times, helpful.  If it means we pause to clarify where we are -- contrasted with where we hoped we would be -- then it can be helpful.  It  may lead to a mid-course correction or lane change.  In fact, it may be another way God guides and directs us. At other…
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mud and mire

By Church, General
"I waited patiently for the LORD; he turned to me and heard my cry. He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand" (Psalm 40:1-2). Mud and mire. While playing in the mud was fun as children, most of us have spent our adult lives trying to avoid it.  And not just the dirt mixed with water type of mud.  Verbal mud.  Emotional mud.  Habits.  Behaviors.  Messy relationships.  Toxic environments. Ironically, apart from mud-slinging (where someone else throws mud at you), I have to assume responsibility for generating a good amount of the mud that has entered my life.  I make poor choices or get sloppy with words.   I am a maker of mud. Not only has God offered rescue from the mud, but he can lift us out of…
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partner

By Church, Leadership
Tenzing Norgay was one of the best known sherpas of all-time, made famous for his climb of Everest with Edmund Hillary.  In his autobiography he tells the story of climbing a different mountain with George Frey, an experienced climber.  The story reminds us how important it is to have a climbing partner. At first the going was easy enough, following a long snow slope into which we could kick good steps, and not so steep that we needed a rope between us. But after a while the angle grew a bit sharper, and the snow harder, and I stopped and put on my steel-spiked crampons, so as to have a steadier footing. “Aren’t you going to put yours on?” I called up to Frey, who was in the lead. “No, I don’t need them,” he answered. And we continued climbing. Once again there is the question of whether I should…
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what and who

By Church, Leadership
The following is a great post by Craig Groeschel from lifechurch.tv.  It's about the who and what of leadership. ****************** Instead of always knowing “what” is happening with a project, what we really need to know is “who” is covering the project. If we have the right “who,” we shouldn’t have to worry about the “what.” If we have the wrong “who,” then we need to know the “what.” If you always need to know the “what,” you have one of two problems: You are not an empowering leader. You have the wrong “who.” Either way, the problem needs to be fixed.
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