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Ken

It’s Only Sex

By Church
I believe the Bible teaches that sex is a gift from God to be enjoyed within the boundaries of marriage. Now, I’m not naïve. I know that viewpoint doesn’t sit well with many people. When it comes to standards of morality, we live in a culture that says, “Hey, you Christians, you need to change.” Let me share a quote with you and see if you can guess who said it. The person speaking is criticizing the person who tries to establish sexual boundaries … “He is at variance not only with the license of what our age allows, but also from the customs and concessions of our ancestors. When indeed was this not done? When did anyone ever find fault with it? When was such permission denied? When was it that which is now lawful was not lawful?” Was that ... Cicero (died in 43 BC)? Sigmund Freud (died in…
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Revitalizing Declining Churches

By Church, Church Planting
Two things matter the most in real estate: location and timing. We lived in San Diego during the housing bubble of the late 2000's. Prices went down as fast as they had gone up. If you had bought at the wrong time, the results could have been devastating. As a result of the bubble breaking, a flood of foreclosures came on the market. Real estate agents began organizing "foreclosure" tours, renting buses and driving 10-15 investors around. Criminal minds found ways to scam the system. Entire cul de sacs were left vacant with perhaps one house still occupied. When a house goes into foreclosure, it's much more than just a financial matter. It's about memories of dinners and games and birthday parties. It might have been the living room where a child took their first steps. The walls held more than pictures; they held stories. The same is true when…
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Generosity

By Church
For the first five years of being a pastor, I didn’t teach or preach about money. Looking back, there were several reasons: I was in my early 20’s making approximately $18,000/year and didn’t have much experience making or managing money. Another reason was fear. Every church growth book I read said the same thing: people won’t attend a church that talks about money. Then I noticed something: that line of thinking hadn’t stopped people from watching CNBC or reading the Wall Street Journal. It wasn’t that people were disinterested in the topic of money. But they didn’t want to attend a church that was ONLY interested in money. Specifically – THEIR money! Fortunately, my understanding of stewardship has matured over the years. We teach generosity at Mountainview not because we want something FROM you – we want something FOR you. This is true if you are a follower of Jesus…
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Late Again

Late Again

By Church
"There is no difference between Jew and Gentile, for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God ..." (Romans 3:22-23) We live in a very time-sensitive culture. We have appointments, deadlines, and alarms. Games kick-off at a specific time. Theaters list show times. Microwaves have clocks.  I time the various stages of making my coffee (for the record, there are three stages to making coffee with an Aeropress, each lasting 40 seconds). When Paul describes the human condition in Romans 3, he uses a word (hustereo) that has the idea of always being behind -- not in terms of importance but in terms of being late. In other words, we are terminally slow. In the words of Kenneth Boa, "We are in the race; we just do not ever win." It's not just that we lack the glory of God, we are incapable of catching up to…
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Airplane Mode

By Church
I've spent a fair amount of time at airports lately (and will again later this afternoon). One missed flight, six hours of standby, a tornado, and a cancelled confirmation will do wonders to your schedule. One of the things about flying Southwest, which I absolutely love to do, is that they don't assign actual seats. You board in groups and pick the seat that's available. If you're lucky, you'll have an open seat next to you. This is when most people go into a human form of airplane mode. What does that look like? You avoid eye contact at all possible. You put your book on the seat next to you. You manufacture a fake cough. You place a stolen baby blanket on your lap. You pretend to be asleep and hope they won't bother you. If you're religious, you begin praying to God to keep that seat open. Why do people do…
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