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Life’s Ultimate Pleasure

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You are probably familiar with the concept of the bell curve. A bell curve is quite simple. Take people who play golf over the course of any given year. Those on the right side of the curve will be really good. Those on the left side will be dangerously bad. But the majority of people are neither really good or really bad. They are just in the middle. Take Michael Jordan. When it comes to dunking a basketball, he would be on the far right side of basketball bell curve. Then there's nerdy guys like me -- on the far left of the bell curve. Millions of Michael Jordan wannabees would be in the middle. But here’s the problem: every day we are bombarded with the best of the best – it's either the greatest, the funniest, or the biggest. But where do I live most of the time? In the middle. Unfortunately, we’ve become…
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Outside the Lines

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In doing research for this weekend’s message, I came across this letter from one friend to another and thought I’d share it with you. Dear friend, pay close attention to this, my wisdom; listen very closely to the way I see it. Then you’ll acquire a taste for good sense; what I tell you will keep you out of trouble. The lips of a seductive woman are oh so sweet, her soft words are oh so smooth. But it won’t be long before she’s gravel in your mouth, a pain in your gut, a wound in your heart. She’s dancing down the primrose path to Death; she’s headed straight for Hell and taking you with her. She hasn’t a clue about Real Life, about who she is or where she’s going.  So, my friend, listen closely; don’t treat my words casually. Keep your distance from such a woman; absolutely stay out…
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God’s Design for Marriage

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Imagine a giant 15,000-piece jigsaw puzzle in a big cardboard box. Now imagine a married couple locked up in a room together where the only way out is to solve this jigsaw puzzle without the box top. Without the box top, they won’t know what the finished puzzle is supposed to look like. Does it sound stressful, even impossible? I imagine it could possibly lead to murder! Unfortunately, many marriages are just like that – not murder, but the jigsaw puzzle. When Tonya and I got married, we each brought a variety of puzzle pieces into our marriage – ideas about how marriage works, who would do what, how to do holidays. Although we came from a similar background and upbringing, we still had work to do. Making it even more difficult is that we live in a culture that no longer agrees what the finished puzzle should look like. If…
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Understanding Men

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As I mentioned last week, I was the youngest of 5 sons. That meant the gender scorecard in my family was 6 men, 1 lady. I had a lot of first-hand knowledge about men and a limited amount understanding of women. (Next week, Michele Cushatt is going to fix all of that when she talks about “Understanding Women.”) Truth be told, there are many times I don’t understand myself and I’m a man! For the ladies in the audience, I’ve compiled a list of things your mom may never told you about men. When two men are next to each other at a stoplight, at least one of them is thinking about beating the other one off the line. Men can slip into a coma waiting for you to come out of the fitting room. Putting toilet paper on the roll is not common sense, it’s a super power. If…
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