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God’s Design for Marriage

By Church
Imagine a giant 15,000-piece jigsaw puzzle in a big cardboard box. Now imagine a married couple locked up in a room together where the only way out is to solve this jigsaw puzzle without the box top. Without the box top, they won’t know what the finished puzzle is supposed to look like. Does it sound stressful, even impossible? I imagine it could possibly lead to murder! Unfortunately, many marriages are just like that – not murder, but the jigsaw puzzle. When Tonya and I got married, we each brought a variety of puzzle pieces into our marriage – ideas about how marriage works, who would do what, how to do holidays. Although we came from a similar background and upbringing, we still had work to do. Making it even more difficult is that we live in a culture that no longer agrees what the finished puzzle should look like. If…
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Understanding Men

By Church
As I mentioned last week, I was the youngest of 5 sons. That meant the gender scorecard in my family was 6 men, 1 lady. I had a lot of first-hand knowledge about men and a limited amount understanding of women. (Next week, Michele Cushatt is going to fix all of that when she talks about “Understanding Women.”) Truth be told, there are many times I don’t understand myself and I’m a man! For the ladies in the audience, I’ve compiled a list of things your mom may never told you about men. When two men are next to each other at a stoplight, at least one of them is thinking about beating the other one off the line. Men can slip into a coma waiting for you to come out of the fitting room. Putting toilet paper on the roll is not common sense, it’s a super power. If…
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The Blessing of Sex

By Church
I was born to Christian parents and we rarely missed church. Not once during my entire lifetime did either of my parents ever talk to me about sex. With five boys, I assumed they must have known something about it but they sure weren’t sharing it with me. I attended the same church from birth through high school graduation. I believe my Sunday School teachers were godly people. Two of our pastors were major influences on my decision to enter the ministry. Yet, as best as I can remember, we never had a class or sermon on the topic of sexuality. I assume that many of them had read the entire Bible – even the parts that talked about sex. But they weren’t talking about it either. That doesn’t mean I wasn’t talking about it – or thinking about it. But I was doing so without hearing the most important…
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The Ripple Effect

By Church, Leadership
Do you remember tossing a rock into the lake and watching the circles spread out? Those are called ripples. Depending on the splash, the ripples might go on for what seemed to be forever. Maybe you even tried to count the ripples (and probably gave up at some point). Rocks aren't the only things that create ripples. We create ripples by what we say -- a kind word, a mean word, or no word at all. We create ripples by our actions or inactions. Our example to others, especially our children, create ripples, too. Maybe you've been on the receiving end of a negative conversation and had a hard time shaking off the aftermath for a long time afterwards. Those were the ripples of a bad encounter. Just as likely, you've been given a compliment and worn the smile longer than the action that created the compliment. When we talk…
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52 Days of Prayer

By Church
After months of anticipation, our EnVision remodel is underway. The first demolition crew arrived on August 30 and work has begun. As they say in construction (I'm learning new things all the time), now the fun begins! Dan Hettinger, who directs our congregational care at Mountainview, sent out the following email to our prayer team. I'm passing it along so you can join us in praying for God's kingdom to be expanded through these efforts. ********** 52 Days of Prayer for the EnVision Construction Good afternoon! Today is Day 1. It feels different here at church. There are new faces of the construction crew and the downstairs is an exciting mess getting ready for an amazing transformation. Would you, as a member of the prayer team, commit to pray every day for our church during this construction project, starting today? Nehemiah led one of the most remarkable construction projects ever.…
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