Inevitably, once you’ve clarified your values and beliefs, you’ll notice something: my behavior doesn’t always match my beliefs.
For example, I might say I value family but if my schedule shows I’m hardly ever home, there is a gap between what I believe and how I behave. In order to live authentically, something must change — either my beliefs or my behavior. If I’m unwilling to change my belief because I feel it is non-negotiable, then my behavior must change.