A few days, I was having a conversation with our youngest daughter about her volleyball team. She had signed up to play for her school and was assigned to a team. She wasn't too happy; she didn't think they were all that good. Not knowing if that were true or not -- and not wanting to argue -- I simply asked her this question: "What are you going to do to make them better?" To which I added, "That's what leaders do." It's true. Leaders exist to help other people improve. A leader looks at a situation and asks, "What can I do to make this better?" A whiner looks at the same difficult situation and complains, "Why do I have to deal with this?" A blamer looks at the same problem and says, "Whose fault is this?" A person in denial wonders, "What is everyone so upset about?" I…
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We know that in order to qualify as a leader you must have at least one person following you. Or, as John Maxwell says, if you think you are leading and no one is behind you -- you're just taking a walk. That being said, every good, effective leader has also been a good, effective follower. In fact, I'm not sure you can learn to lead without first learning how to follow. Before Jesus deployed his apostles to shake up the world, he first invited them to follow him. Then he spent three years with them, allowing them to shadow him around. They learned to lead by learning to follow. I'm often asked, "How can I become a better leader?" Yes, you can read more (and you should). Yes, you can attend great seminars and watch TED talks (and you should). But one of the most effective ways to become…
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Have you ever thought about this question: What kind of person is Jesus looking for? Is Jesus looking for the smart people? The creative people? Could it be that Jesus is looking for the person who is good at managing their time? Or managing their money? Those aren't bad qualities, but nowhere in the Gospels does it say Jesus is looking for those kind of people. Instead, the Gospels show us that Jesus is looking for the person who wants to follow him. That's why his invitation is simple: "Follow me." Simple, yet life-changing. Simple, yet challenging.
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The person who invented the first photocopy machine must have been a creative person. It is quite a thing to visualize and conceptualize and bring to life a machine that would impact literally millions of lives. Ironically, the invention of the photocopier has made it easier to duplicate than to innovate. You simply place your paper on the machine and it produces something that looks like the original. With newer technology, it might even look as good as the original -- but it is still just a copy. Photocopiers are not evil (except when they constantly jam and chew up paper). In fact, there are innumerable times when duplication is necessary, even beneficial. However, I’m thankful that when God responded to our sinful condition, he chose to incarnate rather than duplicate. God could have duplicated the systems that were already in place, the hundreds of laws passed down throughout Hebrew…
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Anthony Weiner is back. OK, he never really went away but his problems have resurfaced. Weiner, the former New York congressman who is now running for mayor of NYC, is back in the news having to explain vulgar pictures he took of himself and sent to others -- after he had resigned for doing the same thing as a sitting congressman. What does it say about our society that we have come to expect our politicians to be slimy? We watch a press conference and assume that some, if not most, of what they are telling us is untrue. We joke about a politician "flip-flopping" but it doesn't really upset us. Could it be that our comfort level for unethical behavior is stooping lower and lower? Instead of raising the bar by expecting more, we shrug our shoulders and accept things "the way they are." When leaders lack integrity, regardless…
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